The new year has arrived and like most people it has me thinking about what I want in my life. I like making resolutions. I like thinking about what brings me happiness and fulfillment, what I dream my life could be, and then setting goals to move in the direction of what I want.
My resolutions for 2026 have rekindled in me a little spark of hope:
I will spend more time laughing and more time singing along to good music. I will spend more time having fun.
I will let myself take on projects just because I enjoy them or because I am curious. Not everything needs to be important or meaningful, and I don’t need to make an impact or learn a new skill with every project.
I will loosen my grip on the reins so that life can lead once again. Life chose a shitty path for me a year ago so I clamped down hard to course correct. But I can’t live like that forever and a tight grip is no longer the appropriate response. I will stay aware and ready but not vigilant. I will let myself relax.
I will allow for the possibility of healing and of a good year ahead.
The possibility of a good year ahead. That stops me in my tracks. I am halted by the idea at this moment in history that it’s possible to have one, a good year, and that this year could be one. It feels audacious to imagine and - in my life, at this time - it also rings true.
I am going to proceed as if 2026 will be a good year. A year full of friends and family, cherished community and nourishing solitude. A year of creativity and play. A year of taking good care of myself like I would a family member in need. A year of service and activism and gratitude, of holding strong convictions lightly and laughing so hard I cry. A year of delicious food and deliciously early bedtimes. A good year.
I can see it coming.
Shannon
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Hibernate: Under Covers
Friday, February 13 at 7pm
Port Hope United Church
What better way to kick off a good year than by playing a show with my favourite band at my favourite festival? Plainville United is one of many Friends of Cultivate performing our favourite Canadian songs to open the Hibernate festival (the winter edition of my beloved Cultivate). Good omens abounding here. Grab your tickets.
Featured Song - Life Uncommon (Jewel cover) #momshorts